If I can decide ,I will make my parents divorced.
Look the title ,you may think I am a madman ,but this is just what I have thought for a long time since I know my family didn't happy . ZlK-`:}4pW$L%hMy father is man ,but just a man ,he was neither a father nor a husband.To me ,he didn't treat me as her daughter ,there is always that he just asked about me when he remembers me .To my mother ,he was only a heavy burden .Because he earns less than my mother and always spends more .He even cannot do any easy things because he lacks of common sense ,so something silly often takes place ,such as he put glasses full of soda water that my mother bought for cooling in the summer into the freezing chamber of refrigerator ,which leads to all the glasses burst up .My mother let him take the rice 、flour and oil home that didpensed to laid-off employees ,but he made the 50KG flour lost . He was staying at home ,but a thief nearly took our air-conditioner outside off and get in our house but he totally didn't noticed .There are too many things like that .I greatly feel my mother shouldn't live with him any more ,or she would be mad ,and I have been mad . W3[wOu.S}
I think there is no child wish his or her parents get divorced without any reason.I have fed up with the life now .
I completely disgust the home ,there was no warmth at all . how about ur mom? you love her, don't you? k8BML ^8z w D q
there are always sth bad that happens in our life, but life goes on. so i hope you can take it easy and don't be harsh on urself and ur family. }w*@j3{CZ
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good luck, and if you ever wanna talk, talk with us. :loveliness: lili~(hope it’s ok to call u lili~), it seems that u do care abt ur family and u believe separate would be the best way to avoid further possible problems, right? However, sometimes things in life r not what they seem nor what u suppose them to be. Everyone has some bad times in his life, and it is better to face those difficulties directly rather than escape from the role u play in life and the responsibility u should take. Try talking to ur parents, try understanding them, and try expressing ur feeling to them. Most of the time communication has greater power than simply predicting and imaging. Every family has its story, and breaking it usually means more hurt than relief. Love suffers long. Love never falls.:loveliness:
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come on.....life is not all bad.....:loveliness: e n4TAHfpeopel r different, maybe ur father is just not a very considerate person.....9I9z/[Ju,a
as long as ur mother can still stand all these, I don't think u should have such an animus against him.....I mean, he's ur father anyway..... People here will always try to persuade you not to do that
I don't know the details of your father and why your mother choose such a so-called 'silly' father
But I know there are three ways when caught in troubles
First, stand with it.)U @/^6X:X5~
Secord, escape
Third, change it
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you choose the secord, but the third way will always be better Ae8W [|#m
try to change it
then escape as you want if failed yes, lili. Life is very complicted but we still need to move on. Although life would be very tough to you, you should try your best to do your best to go through all the setbacks and smile to everyone even though you are not happy with your current life. s` MM#\!ayz B S
Come on, lili. we need to fight for our future and should take acount of many aspects of life as well. Jb^Voq;s
I hope you can get through all the damn things!
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